Jesus looked directly at them and asked, “Then what is the meaning of that which is written: ‘The stone the builder rejected has become the capstone’. Everyone who falls on that stone will be broken to pieces, but he on whom it falls will be crushed.”
Following Jesus words here, falling on the stone and being broken to pieces doesn’t appear to be a negative idea.
This is my testimony: All the things I had built for my life and world broken to pieces when I fell in repentance on the rock of Jesus at the foot of the cross . It was a terribly difficult time, but the end relationship with God was worth more than many fortunes.